



Another problem facing the love-life is finding it emotionally difficult to let go. Venus-Pluto is prone to wringing every last drop out of their relationships. The most typical example of someone with Venus-Pluto is looking for a partner who can fulfill this “extreme” and so it can reveal an attraction to a “bad boy” or a lover with feelings so deep, they would kill for them if necessary, or even being romanced by someone who is emotionally disturbed. The need for deep declarations of desire is longed for with a partner. Taking everything to its extreme depths, pain in love is something often felt. They are incredibly deep loving with an even deeper capacity to understand lovers, missing little in the emotional realm of relating. Venus-Pluto types are superb at looking into the core of others they can see into any individual behind the layers and layers of surface. Sex is both power and magic, and it’s more of a mystical feeling they have a devastating impact on others. The sexual life contains darker textures with transforming elements. Aside from some emotional complexity in loving, they have great personal magnetism. The feelings expressed in a relationship are anything but lukewarm with Pluto involved. Such a powerful need in a relationship can result in self-sacrifice through an enormous need to bond. Venus-Pluto possesses the capacity for enduring love. A Venus-Pluto lover needs to love into the bottom layers, to “fully” and “completely” feel another’s desire. The combination of Venus and Pluto has been called the “magnificent obsession.” No amount of love, affection, or attention fully satisfies the insatiability. Moreover, the individual when involved in a relationship wants to possess the partner’s soul, know all of their secrets, and it represents this great urge to know just how deep love can go. Power and intoxicating attractions are erotic, twisting around the native in a black passion taking them down into this powerful subterranean world of the Plutonian shadow. Even is this is all painfully unconscious there is something about depth, darkness, and the deep chords in others symbolizing the best aphrodisiacs. An individual with Venus conjunct Pluto, Venus square Pluto or Venus opposite Pluto has a powerful drive for love and romance of the intense and passionate kind.
